When you have a child, you want to give them everything in the world and be able to show them all the world has to offer. But odds are when you were a child, there we’re times when you realized you didn’t have all the things everyone else had. And believe me, that can be quite a shock. For however rich or poor you are, there is always someone else who has more. Except if you’re Paris Hilton.
Some parents can give their kids all they need.
Some parents give them more than they should.
Some parents hit somewhere in the middle.
Some can’t give their kids much at all.
Kids are born in to a society built on have and have not’s. Frances Lefkowitz was a have not. Her memoir, To Have Not, is beautifully written as it examines the road to self-discovery and learning the hard truths that surround our world.
Frances was brought up in a poor family in the 1970s in San Francisco. Despite the odds, she found her way to the elite Brown University on a scholarship. But she soon finds out, she couldn’t leave poverty behind her. It shaped her. It commanded all her decisions as an adult.
One part in particular stands out to me from this memoir. Frances, her siblings, and newly divorced father spent all day shopping for Christmas presents. They needed everything from sweaters to shoes. But they piled their car high with gifts and kept shopping, trying to add a little bit to what they needed. They came back from one last store trip to find the car door open and all they’re newly bought gifts stolen.
Her father, stricken, tried to turn it in to a lesson for his children who sometimes themselves had stolen, on how they should live they’re life by saying, “You never know how hard your hitting someone.”
A gripping a true story that reflects on the hardships on society comes here in a turbulent economy. Everything costs more, jobs are few, and everyone is looking for ways to cut back. I can relate. You can relate. Your friends can relate.
This is one tale you shouldn’t miss out on!
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